PREGNANCY SCARE
A Breaching Experiment
Abaya, Dunque, Rojo, Sanchez, Young
SA 21- K
Discussing or
even implying sex is usually considered a taboo in our culture. This is the
norm that our group is trying to violate by purchasing a pregnancy test kit and
by approaching strangers and asking them regarding how to use it and how it
works. By asking random strangers about it, we deviated from the norm that
committing a socially undesirable act (getting pregnant at a young age) should
be private and be known only by the people involved or perhaps close friends
and relatives.
This breaching
activity also tries to explore the social stigma most commonly experienced by
teenagers getting impregnated through pre-marital sex. Moreover, this issue
also implicates the social problems of the welfare and health of the child and
also the morality of teen parenthood.
2. Describe the breaching experiment in
detail. What was the activity? Where did you do it? Where did you do it?
Pretending to be
either college or high school students, we asked for advice from strangers
regarding our situation (a girl from our group is “pregnant”). We decided to do
the experiment at Ever Gotesco mall in Commonwealth Avenue, since it was no
high end mall and most of the people who go there were those part of the
“masa”. We first purchased a pregnancy test kit in a busy pharmacy and observed
the reactions of the people around. Then, each of the girls asked female
strangers of seemingly different ages, about the proper way of using the
pregnancy test kit. To interview male respondents, we decided to go in pairs to
assure the safety of our female groupmate. We also observed the reactions of
the people around.
3.
What were the different reactions of the
people? List all possible reactions you observed. Why do you think they reacted
this way? What caused these reactions? Did the deviant act re-affirm/reinforce
the existing norms based on these reactions?
We
encounter our first respondent, Jesusa (aged approximately 40-50), in the drugstore. When asked about the pregnancy
test kit, she tried to respond in a serious manner but was noticeably
suppressing her laughter and was acting a little awkward as we asked on.
●
“Mahal ka ba
naman ng boyfriend mo?” was the first question of a group of three girls
when approached about the pregnancy test kit. Although, they were quite
understanding and accommodating as compared to the other respondents, their
laughters and glances showed signs of reluctance and doubt in discussing the
topic. Their question also shows how our culture constructed the people to
associate sex with “love”.
●
“Okay lang iha,
maganda ka naman, baka papanagutan ka” - This is still part of a response
of the three girls, showing how their way of thinking is possibly
“romanticized” by the popular culture. Although, this can be just their way of
comforting the “researcher”, this also portrays the kind of thinking that
beauty affects the outcome of a relationship.
●
“Alam ba ng
parents mo?” says Rose, a uniformed lady who seemed to be on her 20s. This
line of questioning affirms the strong family ties that is suggestive of the
Filipino culture. The way it was said also connoted a sense of urgency and
anxiety which furthermore stresses this familial connection.
●
“Isipin mo na
lang, blessing yan” replied Rose following an aghast expression after the
word abortion was mentioned. This response is highly reminiscent of the strong
conservative and/or religious beliefs in the country. Even so, Rose provided an
open and comforting reactions. Compared to the awkwardness, reluctance, and
even a bit of judgmental air shown by previous respondents, Rose’s reactions
showed more of concern. This was heightened too when it was revealed somehow
that both our groupmate and her are Bisaya. This revelation then became another
factor as this suggests how Filipinos relate to each other when a sense of
familiarity, no matter if between strangers, be known.
●
We approached a security guard, Kuya Levie, who looked
like he is on his early 40s. He looked shocked upon seeing the pregnancy test
kit but entertained us by explaining
technical procedures. He even gave us a tip- go buy a drink so we can use the
cup and told us about the private comfort room on the second floor of the mall
for us to enjoy privacy. Seeing us worried, he then told us, “Kapag
nag-positive yan,huwag kayong mag-iisip ng kahit anong negative. ‘Yung iba nga
gustong magka-anak pero hindi sila binibigyan. Eh kayo binigyan na.” He also
giggled a lot and looked a bit awkward but was trying to be accommodating of
our inquiries.
●
When we approached an old woman regarding the pregnancy
test, she was very dismissive and tried to evade the questions. A usual thing
she would say was to just read the instructions and tried to shrug it off.
Although at first she seemed welcoming, she started to try to leave once the
first question was asked.
●
We approached a young man who was concentrating on his
phone. He was not too cooperative and just tried to evade our questions saying
things like "Okay lang, kaya niyo yan" or "Nandiyan lang yan sa
instructions". We soon found out that he was not alone and was actually
with a partner. Compared to him, the young lady was very open and was
comfortable talking about the topic. Although, she nagged us a bit and even
said “Kami nung ginawa namin yan may trabaho na kami, kayo…”. Despite this, she
still willingly helped us and answered our questions.
4. Aside from the norms, what sociological
themes are at play for people to react in a certain way? Is it a function of
gender (gender norms, roles), social class (norms of the rich & the poor),
values/ beliefs of institutions (religion, family, peer group, etc.)
Respondents seemed to be overwhelmed upon
knowing that they were just in a social experiment. Thus, we decided to not ask
further details like their jobs and
religious beliefs as a form of respect. Nonetheless, there was one recurring
observation from all the respondents--they are all pro-life. No one encouraged
any of us to abort the“baby”. Hypothetically, the fact that the Philippines is
a predominantly Catholic country (80% are Catholics) provides a big factor in
explaining the respondents’ reactions. The Catholic church maintains a
significant recognition and importance to the life and humanity of each
individual. Moreover, supposing that they belong to other religions, religion
as a guiding principle, teach believers
the importance of life still.
In
terms of gender norms, most men gave technical answers while the women tended
to be more emotional regarding their answers.
Having
only approached respondents who, more or less, are within the same social
class, we have input for comparison. Thus, we cannot explore on social class as
a theme.
5. How did you feel when you did this
experiment? How does it feel to deviate from the norms? Were you hesitant to do
the activity?
We
were hesitant at first because we will experience social stigma without
actually doing a socially undesirable act (being pregnant and impregnating
someone at a young age). But once we tried it for the first time, it became
fascinating to observe the reactions of people. The feeling of deviation was a
mix of thrill and nervousness in a sense that it was exciting to do something
that wasn’t considered normal and nervous because of the possible judgements
from the people around us or maybe that what we were doing might make people
uncomfortable, suspicious, and weird.
6. Other observations and analysis that you
may have on the activity and on deviance in general.
An
observation we made during the experiment was how one deviant act could bring
out certain reactions from people and how these simple reactions could indicate
multiple insights about a certain person and their beliefs. This activity also
showcased the diversity of people’s responses based on their age, gender,
beliefs etc. yet at the same time there is also a present common trend among
them. This seems to be an example of how within a certain culture there also
exists subcultures.
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